Tracey: Reality Vs Expectation


Even though I try really hard to focus on the journey and not the end result in most cases, some part of me still hopes for that miracle cure to get me where I want to be. I’m not proud to admit that in that quest I’ve undertaken some pretty incredible measures, from fasting to cleanses to flushes to diet pills.

I haven’t travelled down that shady road in a few years now and I’ve managed to make health and strength my priority versus the number on the scale. At least, I thought I had turned that corner only to find myself startled this week with disappointment due to results I wasn’t prepared to see.

We had our 4 week Booty Camp assessment on Monday night and while I opted out of doing it in front of a crowd (are you NUTS?) I had taken my measurements and weight at home on the initial start date.  The only part I couldn’t measure was the fat caliper which helps you calculate body fat percentage.

So, standing in my bathroom buck naked, I weighed in and rolled out the measuring tape. I had my pen and paper poised at the ready to tally these awesome losses. My expectations were for an 8-10lb loss and several inches to be gone, specifically off my waist (which is my nemesis area.)

I measured, then re-measured. This could not be right. My clothes are looser, I feel stronger, my stomach is definitely, for sure, without a doubt, flatter.  I’ve lost 6 lbs and 6 inches. Not one of those inches is from my waist or arms. What the what what??

I lost 3 inches from my chest (I’m considering this back fat and not actual boobage. I don’t want to lose boobs so I will call it what I want!) and 2 inches from my hips.  Considering I don’t have much of a booty and I’m not pear shaped, this is again semi-surprising. The last inch is from my thighs, which is great, but my legs are sort of my “showpiece” if you will so I wasn’t too concerned with them. Let me repeat: arms and waist? Nada.

I immediately felt disappointed. Here I am killing myself at Bootycamp twice a week, I’m sugar and alcohol free except for a once a week cheat night, I’m working out 6 days a week hard-core, and I’ve only lost 6 lbs and 6 inches??? Yes, there may have been some cursing and even a few tears of frustration.

I immediately took to my support systems via, my friends and my sister who is a fellow Bootycamp recruit, and asked them all to talk me off of a ledge. Dang I hang around with smart, encouraging people! They absolutely and totally gave me some much-needed perspective!

In a nutshell, I’m a little “Type A” perfectionist. A loss of 6 lbs and 6 inches is fantastic in 4 weeks because it’s a healthy way to lose and I’m gaining lean muscle. If I had done the body fat percentage, I probably would have also seen a loss there to show for my hard work.  Where is the disappointment in weighing less and being more fit than I was a month ago? That’s right, there isn’t any.

Barbara talked about speaking to ourselves kindly here, and she’s so very right.  My friends pointed out that had any one of them come to me and said they’d lost that amount of weight or inches in 4 weeks, I’d be ecstatic for them and I’d tell them to keep going because they were doing INCREDIBLE. So, why can’t I give myself the same kudos instead of this critical self-talk?

After camp that night, I felt much, much better about my results.  I realized that this might not take me a month or two or even three. It’s going to take as long as it’s going to take for me to get where I ultimately want to be. That’s okay. All of the efforts and all of the work is paying off and will continue to improve my health, regardless of what it says on the scale or a tape measure. I FEEL fantastic, doubly so with the insanely supportive team pushing me and holding my hand.

I have another 4 weeks of BootyCamp to go, and I’m going to continue to work hard and give it my all. I’ve tweaked my diet as well, lowering some of my carb intake since my every snack seems to consist of crackers with a protein, in some shape or form. I also really have to get my sleeping issues (or lack thereof) under control and aim for at least 7 hours a night. Lastly, I promise to treat myself as kindly as I’d treat others and to not expect perfection from myself, just a strong, concerted effort.

This is about SO much more than weight and fitness for me. It’s a whole mindset that needs shifting and sorting. I’m moving forward bit by bit, piece by piece.

One step closer.

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16 Responses to Tracey: Reality Vs Expectation

  1. Katie Squires says:

    So glad you reached out and listened to your supportive “sisters” and that you see HOW AWESOME your doing! And I just have to point out that in your report you forgot a few bragging rights and successes like how much stronger you are, how your endurance has improved, how mentally strong you must be to be sticking to this, all the healthy nutrients your feeding yourself…so much to be proud of!

    • Tracey says:

      Thanks Katie! It’s certainly worth noting all of the positive strides-including the ones you listed! In the first class, in a timed minute of sit ups, I was struggling to keep my feet on the ground while lifting my body off my mat! Last time we did sit ups, I realized half way through that I was easily cranking them out! I felt like a Superhero! :)

  2. Sandra Spicer says:

    Yes, one step closer…one HUGE step closer. Be as encouraging and patient with yourself as you would with a friend. Personally, I think you ROCK!!

    • Tracey says:

      Thanks Sandra! What’s definitely motivating me is having a posse of supporters encouraging me, even as I doubt myself! Thanks for being part of that group!

  3. Jay says:

    Tracey – I highly recommend having the instructor take your measurements. I was horrified at first – but no one else hears or listens – just the person recording for you. And I’ve found our group to be very encouraging! Most of my results have been with the fat calipers before this last assessment. It also allows you to log into their online tool to figure out how much fat weight you’ve lost vs the lean mass you’ve gained. You did a great job in 4 weeks. 6lbs and 6″ is great!

    • Tracey says:

      Thanks Jay! It was you saying that at camp that made me realize that I’m probably changing myself in ways I can’t even see or measure-so I appreciate that! My sister has calipers so I’m going to do some measuring just to get an idea of more stats! :)

  4. Not only are your results incredible and your EFFORT to boot, but I am MOSTLY impressed with how you are able to embrace this new perspective! THAT is what’s going to get you to your goal, my friend ;-) SO proud of you!

    • Tracey says:

      Thanks Angie! Honestly, getting to know you Halifax ladies is what started this ball rolling for me-and reset my frame of mind! One of the many reasons for why I was fated to live there! :)

  5. Claire K says:

    Congrats! I am also on this journey and currently going bi-weekly to a center where they weigh, measure and coach me through. As supportive and incredibly helpful as they are I can’t help but be disappointed when the scale doesn’t move… or move enough. Even though I see and feel a change in my body I totally struggle with the number on the scale. I too need to be kinder to myself and focus less on the numbers and more on the goal… a healthier me. Thanks for the inspiration today!

    • Tracey says:

      Let’s inspire each other! :) We are all most definitely our own harshest critics, aren’t we? Sometimes I think the real battle is in changing that attitude beyond the physical!

  6. Louise says:

    I think you did fantastic. We are all caught up in the scales and what they will say and not how we feel. The tape measure and how your clothes feel are more of a indication of how you have complished the task. Remember muscles weigh more than fat. Keep it up.

  7. Conny Mc says:

    I love your make me giggle when you talk about back fat and boobage!! LOL And for both our sakes don;t lose any off your butt or neither one of use will be able to find panties to fit anymore !!!

  8. Makree says:

    you are doing so awesome! I think you’ll be surprised when the 8 week mark rolls around at the changes in your body as a result of what you’re doing. I agree with Katie, in that it’s important to not downplay your successes – you’ve gained strength, perspective, and healthy habits – both from a physical perspective as well as a nutritional one. Kudos to you, my friend!

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